Redditors of reddit who claim to have met "the one," why are you so full of shit?

I'm sorry she has hurt you so deeply. But your wife was obviously not your "one". After my parents got divorced my dad found his true "one". He and my step mom were soul mates, what they had was something my dad never had with my mom. When she passed away from cancer 30 years later a piece of him died. Cancer took my dad away 10 years later and knowing they are reunited again gives me peace.

My husband and I met 33 years ago in high school, and we are about to celebrate our 28th Anniversary next month. We've had some major bumps in the road, that's just life and relationships, but I can truly say he completes me and is my soul mate.

It will take you time to heal, but it doesn't mean you won't ever find the right one for you. Be kind to yourself, let the wounds heal. Wounds leave scars, but don't let them become angry and gnarly scars, but rather allow them to fade away to thin white lines. Please don't lock out others from your heart because they will help you heal. Don't let your wife take your future happiness away too. It's hard to see now, but you will find it again.

Hang in there friend.