March 1st, 2019
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People (preferably women), when is a good time to tell a girl that said "she's glad that we will always be friends" that you're in love with her?
March 1st, 2019
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King-of-the-Snekes
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PM_ME_YOUR_MEN
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bananabread95
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JE_12
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Schrecht
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eatcornNt0ke
I dissagree, my girlfriend told me the same thing almost word for word when we were just friends. You just need to show her that you are a worthwhile partner. Women are typically hypergamic which means they choose mates that have some status in a hierarchy. One that she has admiration for. It could be one such as captain of the football team, your job position, or even something like your speaking skills.
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Schrecht
When you say: "women are typically hypergamic", it suggests that you've never had a girlfriend in your life.
That bullshit is incel fakepill shit.
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eatcornNt0ke
No, its a thing. Look it up instead of being an asshole.
Edit: Here is what wikipedia has to say.
Studies of heterosexual mate selection in dozens of countries around the world have found men and women report prioritizing different traits when it comes to choosing a mate, with men tending to prefer women who are young and attractive and women tending to prefer men who are rich, well-educated, ambitious, and attractive. Evolutionary psychologists contend this is an inherent sex difference arising out of sexual selection, with men driven to seek women who will give birth to healthy babies and women driven to seek men who will be able to provide the necessary resources for the family's survival.
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Schrecht
Where's the word "hypergamic" in that?
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eatcornNt0ke
It was the page on which I took the quote. Don't be such an ignorant dick.
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Schrecht
So you regurgitate misused pseudo scientific terms which are really only used in the incel fakepill community, fail to provide support for your claim, and resort to insults when challenged.
Yeah, we're done here. Good luck with your imaginary girlfriend.
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eatcornNt0ke
Sounds like you are ideologically possessed and don't want to come to terms with a reality of the world. Have fun living life denying facts because they dont fit the narrative you wish to be reality.
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Schrecht
Says the Jordan Peterson groupie.
But yeah, I do "have fun living life". The rest of your words are tripe, but that part is valid.
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Marnixium
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Realdude65
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Solitudent
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sucicdal_man
cmiller89
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miamimike92
If the guy was a real piece of crap then he clearly wasn't worth the time. But I've been the guy in the outside all the time. And it'd be nice if relationships were both ways. A girl can ask a guy out.
It sounds like doing that is a major turn off to you. But to anyone else out there just because a guy isn't making a move doesn't mean he's a coward.
And yes I've made "the move" before it never ever works out. So yes it will be very very hard for me to do so again if I ever get the chance. Simply because it's literally never worked.
But hey guys and girls always have a different prespective. And I know that very few if not no one can relate to what I'm saying here.
And yes it'd be nice if someone took initiative and asked me out. Instead of this attitude that girls and guys have. Where they all think I'm the weak one for not chasing girls like everyone else.
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cmiller89
You’re making assumptions. I’ve asked plenty of guys out in my time before I married my BFF. The thing is, if you have these feelings, you need to act instead of being the kind of guy that just feels sorry for themselves. If my guy friend would have asked, I would have at least tried to explain it and let him down easier than someone just waiting around and getting upset when I married the love of my life.
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miamimike92
I made slight assumptions that you didn't like the idea of a guy being nervous to ask a girl out. But it was because of the tone of your post. The whole grow some balls thing really made it seem like you disliked anyone that didn't just ask the girl out.
And cool you're literally one if the very few that I've ever met that are willing to ask a guy out. Unless it's something girls do all the time and I just never knew that.
I don't just sit around feeling sorry for myself. Even though that's what it would look like from my post. I just don't care anymore. If I like someone I ask them out, they say no and it's over with.
Knowing what the response will be does take out the nerves part. But on the other side I always have to remind myself not to become bitter towards women, since none have yet shown any interest in me.
And yes this post shows some bitterness. But I'm doing my best to keep an open mind here. And I can't talk about any of this with anyone without getting eye rolls and mocked. So being anonymous online is better for me.
Still I can't imagine what a different set of problems I'd have if I was a girl and all I ever saw was guys asking me and all my friends out all of the time. It's kind if a lose lose situation with dating.
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