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March 6th, 2019

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/r/AskReddit

7 years ago

Girls of Reddit, when you tell a guy "I'm not looking for anything right now" after you get asked out, how long should be waited till ask again?

March 6th, 2019

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[deleted]

7 years ago

you probably shouldn't ask again

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casinodom

7 years ago

Lol never, take a hint.

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galaxyreader

7 years ago

Forever

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sketchnscribble

7 years ago

Just because she is interested in you helping her with homework doesn't mean that she wants a relationship with you. The reason she only asks you for help is probably because she feels more comfortable with asking you or she likes how you explain things. Don't ask her anymore and just let it go.

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[deleted]

7 years ago

Immediately, but not by you.

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edgar__allan__bro

7 years ago

You shouldn't ask again.

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SpeedoKill

7 years ago

You literally just don't - you move on and find someone who is.

Though having read your replies and assuming you aren't a troll, some of your attitudes towards this person and women in general are a bit misguided. She likely has zero interest in you beyond study purposes, and she isn't using you either - she asked for help, and you gave her help. That's all she sees you as; a 'study buddy'.

If you are a troll, then I think you're a funny one and your impression of a 'nice guy' is spot on!

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[deleted]

7 years ago

She's just not into you and wants to be nice and not cause a potential negative reaction. Your best bet is to just accept this gracefully and understand it is not personal.

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geminiloveca

7 years ago

In all honesty, don't ask again.

"I'm not looking for anything right now." could mean a few things, from "I just broke up and I'm not ready to date again," to "I don't want to date you, specifically, but I don't want to insult you to your face."

Either way, asking repeatedly just fucks with your self esteem and starts getting into creepy territory to her. If she decides she wants to date you in the future, she can make the move to let you know. And you may well have moved on by then - which will be her loss.

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Inky-flower-

7 years ago

you dont ask again. when a girl says no, you dont keep pestering her.

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[deleted]

7 years ago

Good luck kid

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kismesistude

7 years ago

as a girl, we usually don't like being asked out repeatedly. it can be viewed as pushy, annoying and like you don't care about her feelings.

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[deleted]

7 years ago

It means she's going to turn right around and say yes to somebody else in the next couple of weeks, so just give up.

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DisloyalMouse

7 years ago

Don’t ask again. Whenever I’ve used that line it’s my way of telling someone who I might like to be a friend that it’s a no.

The ONLY exception is if down the line she gives very very very obvious hints that she’s interested and there’s no way they could be anything else. However I’ve never personally done that.

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Admirable_Pudding

7 years ago

this dude is trolling

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[deleted]

7 years ago

It means she's not interested in you at all, and hopes that you just get the hint.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

I mean she clearly is interested, I'm the guy she always asks for help on homework even though there are 4 other guys in that class

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[deleted]

7 years ago

That means she knows you have the answers doesn't mean she wants to touch your penis. Move along. And stop giving her the answers.

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dongazine_supplies

7 years ago

u tuk b8

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

But if I stop then she stops talking ti me...

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[deleted]

7 years ago

Perfect. You're wasting your time and your energy you could be using on somebody that will like you and not use you to help her grades

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

You're right. I'm gonna confront her about using me rn. I'm gonna call her

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[deleted]

7 years ago

Dont even waste that energy. Block her shit and be done

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

Too late I left her a voice mail

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

OH FUCK-- its not her phone its her mom's phone I left a voicemail on and her parents are really strict about her hanging out with boys. I really fucked up.

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DataIsMyCopilot

7 years ago

r/thathappened

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ArcticTernAdmirer

7 years ago

If that's the case, then she's using you.. If your friendship ends because you no longer give her the answers, then it's a service, not a friendship. Do you do anything together other than homework?

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[deleted]

7 years ago

You're the type of guy to let whoever walk all over you just for a hint of affection. Girls are not into that.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

You're the type of guy to explain what girls are and aren't into and be wrong in most cases so I guess we both suck

[deleted]

7 years ago

I know enough to explain why this specific one is not into you, but you've already demonstrated your unwillingness to both get her hint, and then listen to those of us who can observe the situation more objectively and have some insight.

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bobkalonger

7 years ago

Yeah...no. Nope. She don't like you like that. She doesn't want to hurt your feelings.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

You are hurting my feelings

bobkalonger

7 years ago

hey I'm talking man to man here, no disrespect intended

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ArcticTernAdmirer

7 years ago

That does not mean she's interested in that way. It could just be platonic. If she knows you the most of everyone in the class (boys and girls), it makes sense she would talk to you.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

She knows me the most cuz I am pretty sure she likes me the most

Willlittle3091

7 years ago

How can all these people not tell you’re being sarcastic lmao

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gasbreather420

7 years ago

You should ask again but with more intensity. Women love a strong, determined man. She’ll be moister than oyster, trust me

sarthurf

7 years ago

You're mean

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gasbreather420

7 years ago

How

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

Ok

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[deleted]

7 years ago

Hu with a girl one night, asked her out for drinks and she said that same thing. In your case, she’s not interested. Some people just want sex with someone they find attractive and some people are just not interested at all. Move on, you guys never dated or hu’d so you’ll get over it in no time, but that’s up to you.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

We did hu though: We went to the mall to do the homework

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[deleted]

7 years ago

That's not hooking up. Unless homework at the mall is now kid code for sex

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Clickum245

7 years ago

Damn. The old man cracked it! Come up with a new code!

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[deleted]

7 years ago

I’m confused, did you have sex with her or did you guys make out for a little bit and then went to the mall?

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DDonleftConright

7 years ago

Seven years. We'll both be different people then - and who knows! I mean prolly not gonna happen, but yeah, not anytime soon for sure.

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LuciusDickusMaximus

7 years ago

Is a week enough to make us different eople? I don' t want to wait 7 years!

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DDonleftConright

7 years ago

ahhhh no. Give up on her. You're pouring your heart into something that won't happen and it'll only cause you pain.

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