Redditors of Reddit, when did you finally realize you were never going to kiss a girl?

To be quite honest, I don't think your goal should be kissing a lady but should be more like meeting someone, having a girlfriend, having sex, and that sort of thing. None of that is "magical" but companionship is an important part of human psychology. Is this really that hard for you? I can almost guaratee that you can find someone for at least the physical stuff with out much problem. If you're interested in a longer term relationship sort of thing, that can take some time. But I've witnessed drunk ladies making out with a sign post before. If you're more appealing than a sign post, you probably have a shot. Good luck to you man. I used to think it was really difficult when I was younger but usually you will find that if you take a good hard look at yourself, it is something you're doing or not doing that is causing you the most problems. Sometimes it doesn't hurt to lower your standards a little bit on looks, and maybe that could help you.