Girls of reddit, when you reject a guy because you "don't want to ruin the friendship," would you go out with him if he ruined the friendship himself and then asked you out?

[deleted]

No. Move on.

If she's not interested in a relationship with you she's just not interested. I'm sure there's someone out there for you. You just have to find her.

r/niceguys

Not unless you take a break and reinvent yourself into someone she hasn't ruled out.

Could you elaborate on “I’ve done so much for?”

After a time of getting to know you, anyone would be able to assess whether you would be a good fit for them as a husband or just a friend based on your core character, not your ability to do things or buy things for her.

If another lady thinks your core character is perfect for her and you feel mutually the same, then a good relationship may develop.

Go for it. Never be afraid to just go for it, and don't fear rejection. I've almost always been the one to make the first move, and I didn't always get a yes. But I got the most important yes in the end, because I'm the one who asked my husband on a date when we first met. You'll forget about all the ones who say no, but you'll always regret missing out on the one who could have said yes.

By the looks of the other comments you made. I have doubts