LuciusDickusMaximus Archive

January 15th, 2020

/r/explainlikeimfive

6 years ago

ELI5: Why do women not enjoy sex?

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January 15th, 2020

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6 years ago

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KingStrijder

6 years ago

If I wasn't poor af I'd give you the most expensive award in all of reddit. My upvote would have to do tho.

[deleted]

6 years ago

Women want sex as much as men. The difference is societal. Women are not only shamed for liking sex, it can also be very dangerous for a woman to get close to a new guy. Most guys wouldn’t think twice about going to a random girls house for sex. Women, on the other hand, have in the back of their mind they could be raped or killed doing the same.

They enjoy sex they just have to be a lot more careful about it.

DickweedMcGee

6 years ago

They do. And it's probably not because you're 'bad' at it, it's just because you havent learned to relax and be open enough that your partner feels she can be open about what she likes. This SOUNDS very simple, but it isnt. Above all else, dont get stressed out about it because it will make things worse....

[deleted]

6 years ago

Oh trust me women enjoy sex just as much as men do if not more. However if your partners aren't enjoying themselves or you feel like they aren't you need to talk to them about how you can make it more enjoyable for them. Also keep in mind that women are taught that their sexuality is a bad thing typically, so they often repress their feelings torwards sex.

[deleted]

6 years ago

Do they though? They don't seem as sex obsessed as me or people my age. And I don't just mean towards me which I would get, but in general

[deleted]

6 years ago

To repeat what i said, it's often because women are taught not that having lots of sex is a bad thing. You (society not you specifically) can't tell someone that if they have lots of sex it's a bad thing then expect them not to repress their sex drive and get super selective with who they get with. I mean think about it, think about all the shame women get from sleeping with a ton of guys vs the praise that men (mostly) get from sleeping with a ton of women.

Hoihe

6 years ago

Women who have sex with many men are shamed.

Men who lay many women are praised.

huskybeaumont

6 years ago

This is such an outdated opinion. Nobody shares joints or drinks with the male sluts I know. They also don't introduce them to any woman they care about.

Hoihe

6 years ago

Pretty strong in Hungary still, from high school to university to even workplace culture amongst blue collar men.

spaceylacy82

6 years ago

Lack of orgasms for starters. A larger percentage of women fake orgasms than I think men realize. Another reason is boring partners. Men who lack the ability to use their hands or mouths creatively are boring. How can a man not sense or realize when we are bored? You're pretty much screwing a sex doll.

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6 years ago

Because when we ask women if they liked it they say yes, regardless of if they sex dolled or not. It becomes pretty hard to determine if a woman is enjoying something if they constantly tell you they are. I'm very much for women telling men how to be better at sex. you can even do it without bruising a man's ego