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5 years ago

Is hamilton safe for kids?

My niece is begging me to see this Hamilton thing on Disney Plus, but I'm not sure it's the best idea. I've heard there is gun violence and swearing. Plus, I get that it's a musical, but Alexander Hamilton, a violent and drunken dueller, isn't exactly someone I want as a role model for my niece. Would you say it's fine for her to watch?

February 13th, 2021

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NjMel7

5 years ago

We took my son to Les Miserable when he was in kindergarten. All the naughty bits went right over his head. The music in Hamilton is amazing and I bet your niece will love it. I would be more concerned w the death that occur in Hamilton than the guns or swearing. Just my opinion.

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ILikeSouthPark

5 years ago

It should be fine as long as you don’t pay any attention to the cursing or violence. If you act like you don’t hear it, then chances are she won’t either. It’s a great musical, I think she’s going to love it!

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Herdnerfer

5 years ago

We let our kids watch it, youngest is 8. It’s got some cursing, some sexual themes, Hamilton’s mom is referred to as a whore on multiple occasions. I was on the fence, but they really loved it and watch it just as much as any Disney musical now.

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[deleted]

5 years ago

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chandler_l

5 years ago

Totally safe, not much swearing and 2 main people get shot, but there’s no blood or gore in the whole thing. I may suggest skipping say no to this. The drunken scenes are all simple good fun between Alexander and his 3 friends.

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jlara7980

5 years ago

My oldest daughter was 8 when we started watching it and she fell love with it right away. We watch it at least once a week and listen to the soundtrack more. Hamilton actually sparked her interest in the actual history.

She understands the swearing is not to be repeated. And honesty, she hears more cuss words from her father than in the musical 🤣 And my daughter and I already started the sex talk before this so it helped continue the conversation as she asked questions like why Hamilton is called a bastard. As for violence, i feel its less than most action movies.

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momisreallytired

5 years ago

My mom introduced me to theater at a very young age (I was singing songs from Les Mis at 3) and she taught me that theater is art, and the inappropriate parts are just part of the artistic masterpiece. Growing up, I was fairly sheltered when it came to inappropriate movies, but theater was different. Also, Hamilton is definitely not portrayed as a “violent, drunken dueler,” nor was he that way in real life. I would absolutely let her watch it. At the very least, it’s a great way to open up learning about history.

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[deleted]

5 years ago

My youngest is 8 and has watched it dozens of time. Even sings along with the handful of swear words and all. He knows which ones are “bad” words ( he does ride a school bus after all, lol) and that it’s ok to sing along but not use those words elsewhere. The one F bomb in the musical is edited out. There’s some mild sex references that would probably go right over kids’ heads. Hamilton has an affair and the repercussions stretch over the last part of the show. When my son did ask about why his wife was sad I just explained he had been kissing another woman and taking her on dates and you can’t do that when you’re married.

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[deleted]

5 years ago

I have three boys aged 11, 6, and 3. They have vastly different personalities. I have never censored anything my 11 year has wanted to watch or talk about. We use what we hear on the news or on TV as learning opportunities. Having 2 younger brothers with a largish age gap led to a discussion about sex at a relatively early age. I don’t ever lie to him (there are no storks bringing babies in my house), but I might gloss over certain details that don’t detract from the overarching lesson. My 6 year old is another story. He delights in repeating curse words and does not have the same social conscience as his brother. I shield him more from video game gun violence, etc than I did his brother. We still have the same frank discussions, but it’s at a different pace with a different emphasis. My 11 year old has seen Hamilton on Disney+, my 6 year old has not but this is not because of their ages but because of their personalities. All three boys hear the soundtrack constantly and I heard my 3 year old singing “The Battle of Yorktown” on his own last week. My 3 year old loves to sing and I can see him being a theatre kid in the future. He will likely be interested in seeing Hamilton before his 6 year old brother ever is, if at all. At whatever age either of them asks to see it, I will let them, but with me present and there will be a lot of pausing to discuss things, but there will be no fast forwarding through “the red lady” or anything else.

All of that to say: yes it’s safe for the right kid at the right age with the right parental involvement.

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CommunicationMost119

5 years ago

A bit of cursing and one somewhat sexually themed song, the violence isn’t really actually violence the way of picture violence, it’s just pointing fake guns. I’d say it’s fine for kids, my 7 year old brother watched it just fine, t he only probably for him was sitting through the whole movie lol

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sugarlily113

5 years ago

there is quite a bit of swearing and a little bit of sexual / adult stuff but those things are small compared to how incredible of a musical it is!

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Brojustwhy

5 years ago

The musical is great for however old one is to watch, perfectum.

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alongthegoodredroad

5 years ago

My great niece,9, and her brother,6, love Hamilton. Their parents don't make a big deal about the curse words or the sexual innuendos and the kids don't notice them. They get bored at "Say No To This".

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maggieterra

5 years ago

I think that Disney bleeped out the curse words so the only issue would be a kind of sexual song but there is nothing explicit just a bunch of allusions.

As to the drunken duller thing is not true. True he gets drinks at the beginning and is a little drunk but he doesn't do anything that a child can't see.

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[deleted]

5 years ago

Yes. My 7 year old daughter loves it. It is good to expose children to incredible musicals like this. I was raised on Les Mis and despite the “Master of the House” song, it was still very formative that led me to a love of music. Hamilton gives children music, a look at representation (my daughter is Latina), empowerment, and is way better than a lot of crap children’s shows with terrible messages and music. Please let children experience it. This is being a very formative experience for my daughter and I love that she sings the songs on her own. They are exposed to much worse on a daily basis.

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Few_Butterscotch_382

5 years ago

Mmmmm because of 'Say No to This' and the fraternizing that Hercules Mulligan does in 'Aaron Burr, Sir', I would suggest watching it first, but otherwise I don't think it's inappropriate. I don't think the gun violence is gratuitous to the story and likely wouldn't have much influence on a girl (a boy I would say maybe, but hardly).

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plainKatie09

5 years ago

Some swearing, but depending on her age she might not catch it as 1/2 of it is rapped pretty quickly. We always fast forward through “Say No To This” the kids know when the lady in the red dress comes on we fast forward until she is gone.

Honestly if anything I think it had way more pro’s then cons. My kids are biracial and they LOVE seeing themselves represented it is so important to them. And it opened up a lot of great conversations about history. I have a 5 year old who can tell you all about constitutional conventions, Thomas Jefferson, George Washington and has memorized a lot of the dates in history they talk about.

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cest_la_via

5 years ago

I was actually amazed about how accurate it was; only a couple handfuls of inaccuracies.

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omimoose

5 years ago

i'd say yes, the violence is probably less than what you'd expect from a normal fantasy kid's movie. as long as your kid wouldn't understand any of the more 'adult' references (which are pretty cleverly disguised), it's pretty safe to watch :)

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LuciusDickusMaximus

5 years ago

Hmmmm... My kid is pretty smart (36 ACT as a 7 year old) so he might get the jokes...

[deleted]

5 years ago

And if he does? If he’s that smart, he’s already picked up on these innuendos from other things. Take it as an opportunity to have a discussion about it.

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[deleted]

5 years ago

If he gets the jokes, then he most likely knew beforehand too, in which case you won’t have to worry.

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